Monday, 8 December 2008

Online Game


I don't advocate online game as a very useful thing to do, it is a lot more beneficial to be out in field, only out in field will you build confidence and tight calibration. The competition online is fierce and girls can experience hundreds of emails a day because anyone with 5 minutes can email a hot girl on a dating site, how many guys can go up to a girl during the day or win over her whole peer group on a night out, however the Internet provides a medium allowing you to be very specific and target a certain type of girl that you like e.g. goths, bi-sexual, punk etc


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A. Have a characature rather than a photo as your pic, this way it will still show up on search that u have one but u wont disqualify yourself from the girl if she doesn't like the look of you. Girls can be very picky and particular e.g. he's not tall, he's fat, bald, not muscular enough whatever. If you are very attractive tho or have a great body then sure show this off instead as it's a dhv. In the characacture have it so that u are doing something fun that portrays your personality, being surrounded by friends also acts as social proof. e.g. u are in the middle with big smile and friends either side with snowboarding boards and ski lift in background. u can get a pro to probably do this for u from a photo really cheaply, just go to one of the guys at lsquare.



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B. In your profile basically you want to be different from every other guy. The best way to do this is appear to be a jerk or disqualify yourself in a funny way, This one is taken by putting Mystery Method phrases together to demonstrate you have the material to do this already. "My name is kingy and im a complete jerk, id be soo toxic for you: hey just imagine yourself in your last year at uni and you were with me, id be the kinda guy to just say why bother? Im so high maintence i need flowers and love letters sent to me everyday :-p :-) id be so bad for you, im such a jerk :-)".... e.t.c the key is cocky funny, so not mean but jerky but in a fun way. The girls will respond to this, because its high value and u are pushing them away. also u are different



Here is a more personalized profile, I'll comment beside each line and tell you why it works so you can break down the example profile and create your own with //comment marks



"I am a selfish prick. //disqualification



I'm looking for a woman to take me out to nice places and generally show me a good time.//reversing the dating frame and showing you have standards

I am tall, dark and athletic. I have a good relationship
with my mother and great taste in shoes.//humour

About you: you'll be 19 - 29 years old, physically fit and attractive,
and confident enough to have your own life without a boyfriend who tells
you how wonderful you are every 12 minutes.//showing you have standards and subcommunicating you've had girls who have been into you in the past

Please do not expect me to call you every day, buy you flowers,
or generally do nice things that guys "are supposed to do". It's just not me.//showing you are not like every other guy

I don't mind what height, hair colour or skin colour you are,
but I do ask that you are slim. Preferably with gym membership ..
That you actually use .. More than once every 6 months.//showing you have standards

Please write me why I should meet you. I am looking forward to hearing from you.//qualify yourself to me, i get a lot of emails so why are you different?

P.S. Don't contact me if you are sexually repressed
or have issues with men."//showing you have standards and that you don't apologize for being a sexual man



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C. A fun game is to use the points system where you could say "for your cute smile u get 5 points, i like the fact u play tennis so that's 5 more points, and you being adventurous and spontaneous u get another 2 points for each, and when you are on 20 points you get my email/phone no#/picture, anything to give her a challenge *adventurous and spontaneous* is useful because anything u can do to put her in a box is great because she will fill this role, be more likely to meet up. For instance if u don't want her to walk off then u can tell her she is a "classy girl".


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D. So she will either email u first, with the jerk profile and a cool caricature or dhv pic this will be more likely than not.



Initiate The Chat

Or you can just email them, but remember to be cocky funny u are not bothered by this interaction and u are just filling some spare time u have. There's a range of openers depending on the girl "how hot she thinks she is"
Hb9: "do you know why you suck? :-)"
HB8 - 7 "omg i hate you :-) x"
HB8 - 7 "omg you are pure evil :-) x"
Now im lazy so i will send things like this out and naturally the girl will rather than saying "i dont care" will say "why" ignore that hoop and say something funny and disqualify yourself whilest giving her a hoop. Or you can take the hoop and reply with a classic MM line

"because i had to go shopping for 3 hrs with my lil niece for that shirt that you are wearing in you pic and u got the last one didnt you! DIDNT YOU! :-) x "

"im having the most crazy fucking day today, i was walking out of post office this afternoon and huge pidgeon just shit on a mans head :-0 :-) i like your interest in your profile you get extra points for that :-p :-) make an animal noise x
//u are disqualifying yourself by talking about poo, shows that u dont see her sexually yet, i like your interest gives her a hook to reply on and shows that u are talking to her for her personality not just cos shes pretty, extra points hook as well, also a hoop for her to jump into so u can judge your level of compliance off the bat.

"she can reply with anything"

"yeah you are on xx points atm you get 5 for this 5 for that e.t.c. when you get to 20 then I might send you my picture if u promise to be a good girl :-p :-) //if she makes the animal noise then reward her:- aww your sheep noise is the cutest thing ever u are adorable :-p :-) //if she doesnt make it or asks why the just ignore it"



Sending her your photo

When sending her your photo get a good pic demonstrating your personality, with friends, or if u have a pic of u in a newspaper or something cool like a snowboarding magazine :-) then send that. this will act as some social proof.



Her Sending you her photo

when she sends u her photo a funny thing to do would be to edit it, like in photoshop and give her a really long chin and send it back to her "hey x, u are cute but why the long face :-p :-) u r safe x" //push pull here long face and u r safe pull her back in. Also u are messing with her looks and as long as she can sense u are doing it for your own amusment then this is cool.



Getting the phone number

The transition to get her phone number, "hey i gotta shoot off and take care of business, send me your number and if u promise to be a good girl :-p :-) i might give u a txt later x" //compliance test and giving her a little hoop to jump thro before u take her number.

text game/ online game is easy when u know all the rules and structure of outer game. disqualifying yourself "id to be so toxic for you", being dhv "dhv" , punishment reward "ahh u seem like a good girl im lookin for someone a little more badass :-p :-), thats totally adorable :-p :-)

If you know the girl already

if you know the girl already, like an old friend or fb:-

"hay u, hows tricks, i saw a crazy bad girl in topshop the other day who was chasing and bullying all the attendents :-0 :-) and it made me think of you :-p :-) x"

//hows tricks its not a question but gives her a chance to respond, make her sound to be the bad girl the predator, and then use any call back humour u can think of. The :-p :-) is very important i find because it keeps the girls confused and are not sure if u are being serious or not. txts can be misread so keep them guessing or ur txts could be misinterpreted, u arent going to be next'd if she isnt sure if u meant something.



Making the phone call

then when on phone txts and u want to transition to the phone call u can say

"hey im a bit busy at work today :-o ill give u a call at 7pm tonight after i finish? ill speak to u then x"
//saying she isnt as important to u as work, snowboarding, friends whatever which is great. your girl should never be more important to u than these things, it also says u can make time for her on your grounds ill give u a call at 7? gives her a choice, ill speak to u then x its quite alpha but u are still giving her the choice.

then once on the phone u can work your game there which is a different post all together :-)

Finally when u meet up with the girl u dont have to be a jerk, dispite common believe i am a nice guy too :-) and she will just be relieved when she finds this out on the day2.

kingy x

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